One of my favorite childhood things to eat was peanut butter and jelly.
I would eat that every day.
Not sure if it was the soft bread, or the combination of peanut butter with jelly.
I realize that it may not have been your favorite, but I am sure your own pick.
Funny how we fall in love with some things and just have to have it.
In my youth I thought certain things were awesome.
Looking back I realize it was the simple things that made me happy.
We tend to lose that kind of mindset as we get older.
Instead of being more content, I find we want more and more.
Even after we get more, we discover we are not fulfilled.
Doing away with simple things creates opportunities for dissatisfaction.
Misery is attached to discontent.
Not long ago, I was reading an article about happiness.
Everyone wants to be happy.
What we may need to admit is that some of our desires led to sadness.
We wake up one day unsatisfied with our decisions.
Recall that brand new car you purchased.
You could have gotten a smaller vehicle that fits into the budget comfortably.
Instead you stretch for a vehicle that was more.
At first it felt really good to drive off the lot with it.
Those complements made you smile and feel warm inside.
Then payments, and maintenance start.
Next thing you notice all your extra money going to your new wish list item.
Your emotions start to shift from happy to disgusted if you are not careful.
What has taken place?
Our need for more can create inner struggles.
Gone are the days of contentment….
The days of satisfying your need, even if it wasn’t what you wanted.
The days of being excited about just to ride your bike with friends.
When simple things are no longer exciting you may be inviting distress into your life.
Do not allow desiring so much cost you your peace.
Please don’t get me wrong.
I love beautiful things, fashion, and desire to travel.
However I can not allow my desire for certain things make me unhappy with the life I have.
Revisit old memories of things that made you laugh, smile, content, and happy.
You may discover a mindset that is rooted in simplicity and contentment.
Just Appetizers 